>>508764983
You should work so that your mother can proudly say that her son works in X industry. You should upgrade your skills so that you can stop working in Y industry (embarrassing, low status), and have a proper career in X industry. Don't forget too, that your wife would rather work in X than in Y, because Y is low status, and you're not a low status male, now are you? Your kids will also want a father who works in X industry, as this affords them a comfortable life. You're not a deadbeat, are you? Only boys with low ambition work in Y industry. But if you're unemployed, thats even worse than being a Y status male.