Understand that monstergirls, the slightly to very crazy woman who still loves you unconditionally and would sooner die than cause you harm, are fiction. Real women the monster is on the inside. They're mimics, traps designed to ensnare you as deep as possible and devour your happiness. And like real monsters they're not even truly conscious of their misdeeds. Even the few that are partially aware still aren't if they're truly BPD. No, they're manic beasts and there is no cure for them, rabid dogs stuck in a cage hoping to drag you in with them off sheer instinct. Maybe, just maybe there is some cure, but with a few words they can unmake your entire life for decades. A few self-caused bruises destroys everything you have and are, this society is an environment tailor made for their hunting patterns, you cannot win in it.