>>81491284
>Yeah I know that is why it is annoying when men victim blame us
I've seen a lot of women who end up with douchebags, so at some point the pattern recognition kicks in and it's hard to refrain from asking if the woman is just shallow as fuck for choosing a guy like this. But I've toned it down a lot personally after I myself got played by narc women. Just like how I became less racist after I experienced it. Gotta live it to actually empathize with it.