>>81559345
I sort of agree with you.
The thing is almost nobody actually gives it their best shot. It implies picking the right person, seeing if they're moral and if you're compatible; working in the relationship, etc etc. I've grown tired of seeing women crying after breaking up an obvious douchebag, a douchebag everyone warned her about.
Also the "no sex without marriage" rule is something you're seeming to forget. You're not "forcing yourself to stick with the first person you're with". Because you don't have sex that easily. You only do it if you're absolutely sure yoy want to spend your life with that person. We forgot that is somethig we can absolutely do.
And maybe things go wrong down the line. You work through it then. . People forgot how to do it too. I dont mean staying if he's cheating or beating you, if he does that its your moral duty to dump your husband. But most of the times it can be worked out.

Look, maybe I'm too strict. Not every woman who has seen another dick is a whore, there are some exceptions. But it makes her completely undesirable for me. I simply dont want a woman who has touched other penises. This is irrational, but inescapable. Its part of my brain. If I tolerated extra dicks, I'd be in a poly relationship. I want a virgin wife, anything else feels disgusting and depressing no matter how much I cope or how much she's actually nice.

I know some fag (not you) is gonna respond "women dont want you either". Fine. But then shut the fuck up when people say they prefer virgins. I know I'm being a cunt about it. But whenever some beta suggests, in the most respectful manner, that he wants a woman with a low bodycount. Thousands of whores come out of the woodworks to call him a misogynist pig who judges women and wants to own them. You dont even like the beta. Dont get offended if you're not his dream girl