>>81571897
>how do I make sure I don't end up like idubbbz?

Self respect, confidence and being secure. Thats it. Sadly few men possess these traits, especially around here. Most guys go through a relationship like this at some point but its usually when theyre 15/16 and they learn from it. Someone like idubbz never had a gf before that muzie slut so he doesnt understand theres other women out there.