>>81591715
The thing is, thats not bad.
Body positivity niggas will try to tell you that self improvement is bad, its not
Same way you want to stay beautiful so that guys want you, we have to stay in shape so that girls want us
It goes both ways. Just know that when you get a good looking well built guy hitting on you, he is probably at least partially looking the way he is looking just so that you give him a chance

Self improvment for the sake of attracting / dating is great and we need to stop pretending its a bad thing, because its not