>>81625267
I have no idea what you are saying. We need to lower our standards? If we stop caring this will somehow magically give us the 10000 hours of socializing and social skills with our peers we should have had as teenagers?

All you r*Dditors say the same thing "YO DUDE YOUR'E A FUCKIN PUSSY YOU ARE SO LE BAD YOU ARE INSECURE ENTITLED ABLOO BLOO BLOO" and it never makes any sense, you never have any real tangible advice. You could have said something like "I was a nerd like you, but I joined the anime club and found there were many girls, and I didn't hit on them I just talked and I go to know what to say and what not to say until one expressed interest in me, she was a fat girl but that wasn't a big deal so we went on a date and..", instead it is this kafkaesque meaningless garble, and it is always the same thing.

It all simply corroborates the blackest black pills here, that society really is fucked up and there is no place for us. Certainly we should "put more effort in", but not in the way you think, not trying to impress the usual judgmental materialistic artificial n*rmies. We have to put more effort into breaking the rules and gaming the system, not conforming, which at best will give us the subnormy life.