Anonymous
6/28/2025, 1:24:45 AM
No.81639695
>>81636940
>don't think its much of a standard
It is though. It's also asymmetrical. You didn't "save yourself", there was no sacrifice on your part, you're just an incel who failed to score.
As you approach your 30s, you're asking your future partner to endure years of loneliness and deprivation just like you did, all to appease your own ego, as if a non virgin wasn't capable of loving you and making you happy. You are reducing your future partner to a hymen, the worst type of objectification. You could find a girl who was perfect in everyway, but if she so happened to have a normal coming of age experience of having sex in her youth, she would be ruined to you. That's a tremendous standard. This is why so far you have failed to find this person.
And I fear as you grow older, finding her will be each time harder.
>don't think its much of a standard
It is though. It's also asymmetrical. You didn't "save yourself", there was no sacrifice on your part, you're just an incel who failed to score.
As you approach your 30s, you're asking your future partner to endure years of loneliness and deprivation just like you did, all to appease your own ego, as if a non virgin wasn't capable of loving you and making you happy. You are reducing your future partner to a hymen, the worst type of objectification. You could find a girl who was perfect in everyway, but if she so happened to have a normal coming of age experience of having sex in her youth, she would be ruined to you. That's a tremendous standard. This is why so far you have failed to find this person.
And I fear as you grow older, finding her will be each time harder.