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>You could find a girl who was perfect in everyway, but if she so happened to have a normal coming of age experience of having sex in her youth, she would be ruined to you.
Everyone is perfet when you handwave their flaws. She is ruined.
>That's a tremendous standard. This is why so far you have failed to find this person.
Nah, she made a choice thats on her. You say it's normal, but thats entirely relative to modern, western culture. When I say modern I mean within 60 years.
If someone thinks sex isn't intimate they aren't for me. If they think sex is intimate, they will recognize that the more people you have sex with, the less intimate it is, so there's nothing wrong with a virgin not wanting them.

What I find funny about this whole thing is the thread is filled with a bunch of guys and women, who act as if not wanting a non-virgin is some kind of deep moral failing and unrealistic. It's simply a rejection of an individual based on choices they made, which is entirely reasonable. It's also funny how you can make all these judgements for not wanting to be with someone who had sex, but for some reason it's wrong for others to judge people who have sex. To you, thought carries more weight than people who act on their thoughts.
At the end of the day a virgin can always whore out later, people who sleep around can never have a virgin-virgin marriage.