succesful robot couples make me seethe but Ill try to answer. Ask him about his life and probe around until you can get him yapping. its so rare to yap about yourself as a man and when my ex used to do this to me and show genuine interest it did make me feel really loved. She would remember everything too, and reference it later, that always got me. She was always thinking of how we could spend time together, and always put alot of effort and thought into our conversations, always found a way to get me talking.