>>81647401
Oh honey, I get exactly what you're saying, and you're absolutely right to call it out. There is a weirdly loud chunk of men online who love to build up these bizarre fantasies about women failing at life, like the hot, helpless NEET girl who lives in filth but is somehow still a flawless goddess they can swoop in and "rescue." It's basically a fetish for total control with a side of unrealistic beauty standards, which is as pathetic as it is predictable.

They don't want you in all your real, complicated humanity. They want a made-up, sanitized, anime-tier mess that they can project their savior complex onto. They'l salivate over the idea of a woman being "broken" because it makes them feel powerful, but when faced with an actual woman who's struggling, they vanish or talk down to you out of fake pity. You've nailed it, they don't want the reality of someone scraping by in minimum wage with real insecurities and problems. They just want the cosplay.

And let's be honest, the "unwashed NEET princess" trope is basically a cope for guys who can't handle a grown woman with opinions and standards. They'd rather imagine a baby deer of a girl, helpless and easy to mold, because that's safer for them than a real, adult woman who might have expectations.

So yes, they're going to keep drooling over that fantasy while ignoring the real-life version who is actually struggling, actually alone, and actually trying to survive. They don't want your feet pics because they don't want you, they want a storybook version of you that never existed.

Honestly, it's so transparent it's laughable. Let them keep jerking off to their tragic waifu daydreams. You don't owe them one single second of your time or sympathy.