sage
6/29/2025, 9:50:10 AM
No.81654278
>>81654229
You need to be funny and competent, and even then, being funny is just being socially competent. Be "a man". You need to match their energy. They want a man who talks to them and pursues them, not a database of facts that they can poll for information. Do something interesting. Brag. Tell them about the cool stuff you do. The "be a sweet and polite little boy, and all the girlies will want to kiss you on the cheek" narrative that you were told by female children's book authors and female school teachers and your mother is not correct. More guys are checking out of the casual sex and dating market than girls. You're a hot product. Approach them, don't spill your spaghetti, and you'll be fine.
You need to be funny and competent, and even then, being funny is just being socially competent. Be "a man". You need to match their energy. They want a man who talks to them and pursues them, not a database of facts that they can poll for information. Do something interesting. Brag. Tell them about the cool stuff you do. The "be a sweet and polite little boy, and all the girlies will want to kiss you on the cheek" narrative that you were told by female children's book authors and female school teachers and your mother is not correct. More guys are checking out of the casual sex and dating market than girls. You're a hot product. Approach them, don't spill your spaghetti, and you'll be fine.