>>81707067
This is the only part of "bee yourself" that has value and is likely all the normies really mean, if you are always maintaining a version of you that you can be day today and keep seeking/selecting women that want that version of you there is no "performance evaluation" nor a need to relax as you would be yourself anyway.
Ultimately if enough men did that women would conform, look at how so many of them have become ok with porn use over the last three decades, that was a byproduct of guys not conforming so they adapted instead and really the only reason it's swinging back is more and more young men are opposed to porn.

>>81707094
I think the bigger issues is they don't make better means of stopping people from getting married. It takes more work to get a car license or even a membership to most gyms. Marriage licenses are insultingly easy to get.

>>81707996
Not even .2% get thrown out, it's a very fucking costly measure to do that, you need to separate attorneys to sign and witness the agreement and fucking that up will hurt them in a way that could end their license.