As a Chad, I'm exempt from the "continual performance review" because she knows she can't do better, other women want me, and I could easily replace her. She may be angry about it, but I don't give a shit.
For non-Chads, you just gotta realize she probably won't ever be your "best friend", and at some point when the games and bullshit starts, you have to be able to let go without letting her visibly rattle you. As soon as she starts being a bitch, get rid of her. Yeah for non-Chads that boils down to never get married I guess.
Don't make women your whole world. Have other fun things to do with bros. That's 95% of enjoying life.