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i can't really speak for the "community" or whatever tf u wanna call it as a whole because i am a bit too esoteric for my own wellbeing,, like not in a "omg im not like other girls" way but in a "i literally cant relate to anyone this makes it so hard to find just ONE person to really connect with" type of way, it's pretty frustrating.

BUT, i think a big misconception r9k has as a whole is caring about how they look or their bodies or whatever. i can put money on if you are sweet, funny, attentive, actually take time out of your day to make a nice gesture, a girl won't give a fuck what u look like. basic grooming is obvious, but if you're short or overweight or whatever other "flaw" i promise it doesn't hinder ur ability to get a gf. ALSO, not sure if you've seen the amount of boards on here talking about wanting a pathetic greasy man to ,, lovingly,, abuse, i promise u are FINE LOL

i think puppygirls in specific, talking from my pov, really like to be pampered (not in a material way, but in a praise and compliments way. as if she's the most precious thing on earth lol.) i think a majority of puppygirls find dominance attractive too so i guess just ..... giving a guiding caregiver role in general