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>how can you tell?
they are usually stupid enough to do EXACTLY what i asked them not to do within a few days or even hours. i had a fp before who, when i realized i was attached, i put some boundaries and etc in place so it'd be 100% clear what would upset me and what he could expect. he was VERY understanding, but within the fucking hour he instantly told me he was actually going to go play with another girl and "joked" that he was replacing me and abruptly left call. i am fine w jokes of pretty much anything even when it has to do with my brain being all messed up and shit, but HE WENT THROUGH WITH IT LOL?? then i was obviously upset and he said he was busy so i just blocked him. i guess he realized there would be no one there for him 24/7 anymore and no one practically waiting at his feet begging to have his attention, so i bet that felt pretty lonely. he tried to come back a few times saying he cut her off, but the problem was never that he had other friends, but the way he INSTANTLY did it after we just talked abt boundaries LOL