>>81765990
The bible, in conrithians clearly say "if you are single, then it is even better so focus your life to God. If you NEED a woman, then make it through marriage"
Merely, it is less worse than fornication, not what you should want

Plato didnt like such things, not did other greek philosophers.
Nietzsche was clear to be wary of woman and the strings of heart
Schopenhauer is... Well, i dont really need to write about him to explain...


You dont NEED that to be happy, thats my whole point. Is it good? Yes it is. Is socializing good? Yes it is too, we are social creatures.
Is having a gf the only thing worthy in life? No. It is not. It is a cope if anything.
If it was as fundamental as you say, and i need of human desire then volcel's would not even exist.
There is man who decided to break off a marriage and became celibate simply to focus on a calling he had. They had much more satisfaction like that, of course it may not be your case, but it does show that romance isnt just what there is of life or the end goal at alk.

My point, stating again is. Having it in your life is great ans you may even need it, but you CANT make it your life. At that point is not your life anymore.
Socializinf is good, relationships are good and part of a healthy life, but they arent life itself, they arent the reason you wake up every day... Or... Atleast, shouldnt be