>>81766662
>im afraid that he doesnt view me as his actual duaghter and only financially provides for me because im his wifes daughter.
It's literally true, isn't it? He loves your mother, not you. This doesn't mean you can't still have an amicable or even friendly relationship with him though. Just approach it with the understanding that you are not family. Maybe one day you will be if the nature of your relationship changes, but not now.