I'm 37 and still a virgin, and I'm white. It's easy to remain a virgin if you don't talk to anyone. After being able to be alone during the comfy COVID era, I don't even like eating in restaurants anymore because I don't to be around people at all, but I still feel a sinking loneliness most of the time. There are basically only other white people where I live, so JBW doesn't really apply to me, and didn't apply to me in my formative years.