>>81785600
i made an empty account on fetlife (lol) to just lurk and see whats in my area and all the pfps are gross looking 30,40 and 50 year olds. it kinda grossed me out of the idea. though i did see a bunch of just "chatting" events listed in random pubs but no actual sex parties. i guess thats the offramp your talking about. shouldve taken a screenshot since gov now enforces state ID to access it now
it would be better to find these things organically but the chances of finding a normie intrested in kink is (probably) 1/10000