>>81799767
there is a woman like that on crystal cafe who has been posting about her OCD husband for years. she was obsessed with having a nippon man candy and was willing to overlook his flaws, even when he became abusive. years later and she's still stuck in the same loop of leaving and then coming back (due to a combination of being trapped in a foreign country with low wages, low self-esteem, and longing for a time before he got much worse) when he threatens to kill himself or says he will change, then goes exactly back to how he is, because he can't change. if you want to abuse some woman into staying with you, you can try. but she will leave eventually, and you will be remembered as her abusive crazy ex. trying to talk any woman into following your OCD rules sounds insane to an outside observer. i really don't think anyone will put up with that unless they are too poor to leave you without being homeless and are also possibly disabled and unable to work their way out of it as the woman i described. and no, a woman in that situation will not be cute or hot if she is medically disabled.