>>81877393
it's learnable, but honestly you should just stop giving a fuck. look how many simps sems has on here because she doesn't give a fuck. she even explicitly jokes about "fat ugly bastard" archetypes because it's such a real thing, people really do respond to someone who just doesn't give a fuck and does what they want. if nothing else that should be enough to get guys online to be into you, and that confidence can help you be more smooth IRL.