>>81892132
>If you come to hang out or eat with them somewhat often, then you can get closer even if you leave events early.
>People only stop considering you a friend if you no call no show on them, avoid them for crazy long amounts of time, or go ghost.
well, i went full ghost, hard. i had one old preschool friend who got in contact with my sister and finally found a way to get a direct line to me, and he told me everyone thought i was dead. and it felt really nice. it means no ones expecting anything from me. theyd be amazed just to find out im still around, lol.

to be fair i did go completely dark after about as far as my online presence goes after like, 2012