people tell me this every now and then, but I'm probably the last person who'd willingly raise a kid for the same reasons. whats crazy is, despite talking about and sharing those same reasons with others, I'm in my very early 20's and still see some of my other colleagues around the same age already having kids and getting married without a second thought. I respect it to a degree, but it kind of feels surreal to think about doing those kinds of things so early with no doubts in mind, so surreal I couldnt properly picture being in their shoes