>>82202316
Well, If you are a single mother due to no fault of your own, like the guy just died or he really was a good guy and you really do have good judgement but something fucked happened and it was not your fault, then it's not a red flag. However, I personally am not under any circumstances raising someone's elses child UNLESS they are a really good kid and I have my own children with her and the father is out of the picture for reasons that is not of either the mother's or the father's fault. And i'd have to have like atleast 3 children of my own

I could take on and adopt a good orphan kid who only has a mother and see him as my own under these circumstances. Other wise, it's a hard no