>>82267085
>because they feel they 'have to;'
I actually disagree. It is people like us that feel they have to. And it drove me kinda insane and made me orbit a lot of despicable women. When it comes to normies that get their first relationship at around 16-19yo they don't feel they have to. They just get in a relationship naturally. Most of them are too dumb to even think in those categories at this age. And for them it makes sense to be in a relationship. If you can get one effortlessly then it is worth it. And even if it falls apart after a year they will just get the next one after some time without putting too much effort again. Not being able to have a relationship naturally like average humans do will send you into a negative spiral where the first step is thinking you have to have one.