>>82271934
Yeah and I could spontaneously burst in a flames at any moment. You're assuming the worst of him and not giving it a chance, and that's the only way you can go forward learning about the person, experiencing them and growing with them. How could I be close to my boyfriend if I didn't spend time with him on voice and video, and then meet up. The ultimate goal is to be with the person in person and that's where you have trust. Of course he could betray me but the point is is given the chance to prove that he won't. Don't just assume that of him and avoid him for a reason that isn't actually real and hasn't even happened.

>>82272371
Of course you can, spend time with them. My last boyfriend I talked with on the phone all the time, Played video games and he cared about me. Through his actions when we were together I learned who he is. I loved him for it. The only reason we broke up is I screwed up