I have the opposite problem as someone who WANTS to love and be loved by women. I want a woman with shared ideas and values who isnt a fucking loser. The truth is most women are just losers. It's not that deep. They have no worth but we create it for them with desire and romantic sentiment. The truth is they are just as bad as men, but I dont WANT men to control women. I want women to want to be wit me and recognize my worth. The solution to that is being against the patriarchy if you are not in a coma. The patriarchy is a problem for most men and the state monopoly on violence is the control of social pressures related to sexual availability. The state is better than rapists because the rape of the state is diffused into the social strata so to speak.