>>82417909
Women aren't food so your relationships with women would be different than your relationship with food.

Your appetite for food motivates you to seek out and eat food
Your attraction to women would motivate you to spend more time with women.
The obvious conclusion is that you understand me and that you are purposely being disingenuous about your regret about your own bad choices. Something else motivated you to be interested in other things that made you spend less time with women, and now it's too late. Many such cases ig.