I have an older stepbrother, two in fact. Maybe I had that treatment because I was never a cute lil bro then and I'm definately not a cute guy now, but there's nothing sexual, romantic or intimate in having your ass whooped and handled to you, getting a beatdown when one of them is bit sloshed, being publically ostracized and disrespected, dealing with his shit behaviour really and then listening to his "I'm sorry" later when you're of value. Watching Saw and WWE was fun, being a training dummy after - nkt really. I see the appeal for you, not me, but you are still weirdos.