Anonymous
9/14/2025, 12:36:58 AM
No.82494425
>>82494124
>there isnt anyone in my near vicinity who enjoys playing flamenco,
You can spark interest with your skills and draw them in to trying it themselves.
>How did you find your larping group?
To be clear, I joined the LARPing group before my dark years. I found them on a roleplay forum looking for new members they also had a facebook group. We met at a forest once a week to train and create and went for a beer after the sun sunk down and it was to dark to do anything. I've met a lot of good people there but lost all my phones contacts and have no facbook to keep up with the group's activities so I'm kinda cut off from them at the moment. Who knows, maybe they still meet at the same spot in the forest every week but I'm too scared to go and find no-one.
>What were the first baby steps you took to be a member of society again?
When it comes to the LARPing group, I associated myself with the production guys, a lot less acting characters and a lot more logistics and camping on-site of a game a few days before it starts to set up scenery. There ware always things to do like making fires and building an operational brick-oven to make bread in. And the alcohol flowed like water. We always had good stories to tell and fun times were had for sure.
When it comes to my semi-return to society after 5-6 years of self-isolation, I started with dating apps and prefected the art of writing a frofile that will deter undesireables while attracting one type of girl (most people try to attract all girls and stretch too thin, the trick is looking for one type and cater to them) and eventually I got matches (esp on Boo, a dating app marketed to geeks and weebs, where I found my current gf) some convos went nowhere as usual but some girls stayed for a while and were fun to pass the time with while precticing socializing. I would try the most off-the-wall stuff and sometimes it worked. Eventually I found my current NEET shutin gf.
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>there isnt anyone in my near vicinity who enjoys playing flamenco,
You can spark interest with your skills and draw them in to trying it themselves.
>How did you find your larping group?
To be clear, I joined the LARPing group before my dark years. I found them on a roleplay forum looking for new members they also had a facebook group. We met at a forest once a week to train and create and went for a beer after the sun sunk down and it was to dark to do anything. I've met a lot of good people there but lost all my phones contacts and have no facbook to keep up with the group's activities so I'm kinda cut off from them at the moment. Who knows, maybe they still meet at the same spot in the forest every week but I'm too scared to go and find no-one.
>What were the first baby steps you took to be a member of society again?
When it comes to the LARPing group, I associated myself with the production guys, a lot less acting characters and a lot more logistics and camping on-site of a game a few days before it starts to set up scenery. There ware always things to do like making fires and building an operational brick-oven to make bread in. And the alcohol flowed like water. We always had good stories to tell and fun times were had for sure.
When it comes to my semi-return to society after 5-6 years of self-isolation, I started with dating apps and prefected the art of writing a frofile that will deter undesireables while attracting one type of girl (most people try to attract all girls and stretch too thin, the trick is looking for one type and cater to them) and eventually I got matches (esp on Boo, a dating app marketed to geeks and weebs, where I found my current gf) some convos went nowhere as usual but some girls stayed for a while and were fun to pass the time with while precticing socializing. I would try the most off-the-wall stuff and sometimes it worked. Eventually I found my current NEET shutin gf.
Cont.