Anonymous
9/20/2025, 4:19:05 AM
No.82557512
>>82553030
You want an ideal rather than weighing individuals as they come, which will always be a loss if you aren't willing to invest the time to get to know someone because of some small transgression here or there. That is ultimately the problem with dating in the modern era. People just want to skip to the supposed correct relationship part, ignoring the fact that you necessarily have to get to know people as individuals and gradually weed through to find something worthwhile and compatible for you. Any approach that offers big sweeping filtering of people will always leave you with a hollow chunk of halfwits who will filter you just as quickly.
You want an ideal rather than weighing individuals as they come, which will always be a loss if you aren't willing to invest the time to get to know someone because of some small transgression here or there. That is ultimately the problem with dating in the modern era. People just want to skip to the supposed correct relationship part, ignoring the fact that you necessarily have to get to know people as individuals and gradually weed through to find something worthwhile and compatible for you. Any approach that offers big sweeping filtering of people will always leave you with a hollow chunk of halfwits who will filter you just as quickly.