Anonymous
10/10/2025, 5:34:41 AM
No.82757122
>>82757003
>better to hit em with 'youre really pretty and i caught feelings, would love to take you out sometime. if not no worries, i dont want to change our dynamic.'
the last sentence is an immediate self sabotage since it's awkward and shows a lack of confidence. also admitting feelings and attraction for someone isn't something that you can just easily walk back on, so there's no reason to preemptively say that you don't want to change the dynamic. it's a catch 22, but you either have to accept the full risk and shoot your shot, or you have to stay in the friendzone and hope that she eventually takes you out of it.
>better to hit em with 'youre really pretty and i caught feelings, would love to take you out sometime. if not no worries, i dont want to change our dynamic.'
the last sentence is an immediate self sabotage since it's awkward and shows a lack of confidence. also admitting feelings and attraction for someone isn't something that you can just easily walk back on, so there's no reason to preemptively say that you don't want to change the dynamic. it's a catch 22, but you either have to accept the full risk and shoot your shot, or you have to stay in the friendzone and hope that she eventually takes you out of it.