Anonymous
10/12/2025, 10:10:10 PM
No.82783072
>>82782071
>we only help them save themselves
I did say help, not save. That can only be done by yourself, true.
>if someone doesn't want to be saved, then you just can't do it by yourself
Some DO. Some TRY SO HARD and nothing workes. That's the thing, some people tried self help, be social, find a hobby, work out, go to therapy, get on meds, etc, etc, etc, and STILL want a bullet to the head at the end of the day. It's those people I want to help the most, but can't think of anything else to offer (beside drugs, which are a valid cope, but not sustainable safely).
PHow do you reach a person like that?
I think it's a skewed view of life they have nurtured in their own minds for too long which stops them from moving on. But I can't change a person's outlook on life, especially as a stranger online. Some people have it rough out there. It's frustrating and gives me a feeling of hopelessness. Maybe some people were born to die? I don't want to believe that, but when I hear an anon say they honestly wanted to die/not exist since 11yo, I can't but consider that it's within their right to end it whenever and however they wish. Does it mean I gave-up on them, or respected their sincere decision and god-given right to die? Should I help them with finding painless and peaceful ways to die? Cus I have resources for that. Or do I just turn a blind eye and let whatever happens to happen? I am not sure how to deal with those kind of people, I was never trained to be prepared to assist people who some would call "hopeless cases". It bugs me lately, that's all.
>we only help them save themselves
I did say help, not save. That can only be done by yourself, true.
>if someone doesn't want to be saved, then you just can't do it by yourself
Some DO. Some TRY SO HARD and nothing workes. That's the thing, some people tried self help, be social, find a hobby, work out, go to therapy, get on meds, etc, etc, etc, and STILL want a bullet to the head at the end of the day. It's those people I want to help the most, but can't think of anything else to offer (beside drugs, which are a valid cope, but not sustainable safely).
PHow do you reach a person like that?
I think it's a skewed view of life they have nurtured in their own minds for too long which stops them from moving on. But I can't change a person's outlook on life, especially as a stranger online. Some people have it rough out there. It's frustrating and gives me a feeling of hopelessness. Maybe some people were born to die? I don't want to believe that, but when I hear an anon say they honestly wanted to die/not exist since 11yo, I can't but consider that it's within their right to end it whenever and however they wish. Does it mean I gave-up on them, or respected their sincere decision and god-given right to die? Should I help them with finding painless and peaceful ways to die? Cus I have resources for that. Or do I just turn a blind eye and let whatever happens to happen? I am not sure how to deal with those kind of people, I was never trained to be prepared to assist people who some would call "hopeless cases". It bugs me lately, that's all.