im too afraid of wasting my time, like sometimes ill read about how someone breaks up/divorces with their gf or wife of 4 or 7 or 15 years and it just baffles me. imagine spending all that time with someone just for it to be for nought, and not only that but the entire span of memory for that time will be tainted by the thought of her. what a waste. a gf is an investment and im not confident in it at all