I feel like this is super common. It's often rare I find someone who hasn't been sexually molested. Maybe sexually abused/ molested people are like stand users and they attract each other. I remember just having drinks with a girl and she started telling me how she protects her cousin from her uncle because he touched her when she was young. That being said I've told one person and she tried to throw it in my face, I bear the 'burden' alone or just move on