Anonymous
10/18/2025, 8:18:08 AM
No.82836802
>>82836642
>I make sure to be grateful for what my dad has given me, like items and luxuries
That makes sense to me. If he really is horrible then I'd tell you to not feel even the slightest bit bad about using him for money, but then I'd be a hypocrite. I always felt bad about being a financial burden on my dad (which looking back was stupid since it was his choice to have a kid, granted he didn't expect the other parent to die and suddenly lose half of the household income but I digress), I felt like me exiting his life was a selfless act even. I'm sure he is doing better financially without me now, if he's alive. I also can't forgive my parents for what they did. If only my dad had even tried to be a competent parent I'm sure I wouldn't have made so many mistakes or gotten myself into shit situations, which looking back I got into directly because living with him wasn't an option.
>if I stay in this house my problems will probably just continue to get worse
This is likely true and it's how I felt too. I of course want to encourage you to leave, but please do be careful. Like I said I ended up in bad situations due to that delibitating, desperate need I felt to escape that house asap. You probably don't need to be told this but be financially smart as much as possible. I really do genuinely hope that you can find your own place that you can feel comfortable in.
>How are you dealing with it?
I'm ashamed and embarrassed over it. I got into a relationship that I now regret to escape that house. Now I'm here and essentially trapped with nowhere else to go. Though I feel if I didn't get into this relationship I might still be in that house I was so desperate to escape from. It would have definitely just gotten worse over the years. I feel embarrassed over even typing that out.
>I make sure to be grateful for what my dad has given me, like items and luxuries
That makes sense to me. If he really is horrible then I'd tell you to not feel even the slightest bit bad about using him for money, but then I'd be a hypocrite. I always felt bad about being a financial burden on my dad (which looking back was stupid since it was his choice to have a kid, granted he didn't expect the other parent to die and suddenly lose half of the household income but I digress), I felt like me exiting his life was a selfless act even. I'm sure he is doing better financially without me now, if he's alive. I also can't forgive my parents for what they did. If only my dad had even tried to be a competent parent I'm sure I wouldn't have made so many mistakes or gotten myself into shit situations, which looking back I got into directly because living with him wasn't an option.
>if I stay in this house my problems will probably just continue to get worse
This is likely true and it's how I felt too. I of course want to encourage you to leave, but please do be careful. Like I said I ended up in bad situations due to that delibitating, desperate need I felt to escape that house asap. You probably don't need to be told this but be financially smart as much as possible. I really do genuinely hope that you can find your own place that you can feel comfortable in.
>How are you dealing with it?
I'm ashamed and embarrassed over it. I got into a relationship that I now regret to escape that house. Now I'm here and essentially trapped with nowhere else to go. Though I feel if I didn't get into this relationship I might still be in that house I was so desperate to escape from. It would have definitely just gotten worse over the years. I feel embarrassed over even typing that out.