such a stupid r9k talking point: "women only go for chads."
get real. you see average-looking, broke men with girlfriends every single day. the difference isn't their jawline or their bank account. it's that they can actually talk to a woman without seething or putting her on a pedestal.
you've convinced yourself it's all about looks and money because that's easier than fixing your shitty personality. it's easier to blame "chads" and "hypergamy" than to admit you're a miserable person to be around.
you don't need to be a chad. you just need to not be a bitter, draining black hole of negativity. but that would require self-awareness, and we all know that's in short supply here.