Well isnt it obvious?

>u obviously dont fit in
>u wont have a gf unless u get really really lucky
>any social stuff is unreachable/ull be the "pet"
>everyone sees u as an outsider

>you require that a man who has nothing to strive to work? What for? survival?
The ones who can, rely on their parents, the ones who cant just do hellish minimum wage

Either way they do the bare minimum they can get away with cause why wouldn't they?