>>82873580
honestly, you said pretty much all i have to say on the matter
there's obviously a cultural difference and there's also a gap in life stages (high school, uni, junior worker, senior worker, etc.) and these stages bring about different responsibilities, so communication may be difficult

but uh, as for the older one dying before the younger one, not always
there's a pretty noticeable trend that women tend to live longer than men so if a guy gets with an older woman, there's a real chance they'll die at the same time or the guy will die before her anyway

but yeah, so long as both are adults, there are problems with age gap relationships, but it's not illegal so not my concern
i'd rather worry about child-diddlers, rapists, thieves, etc. anything but two consenting adults fucking each other's brains out