Anonymous
10/23/2025, 5:32:27 AM
No.82888336
>>82887600
I'm in love with a girl who exibits simmilar behavior.
SA'd as a child, tho no rape AFAIK, dad died of a heart attack infront of her eyes when she was 7, mother had psychosis, tried to end herself sending my crush to the foster system, went back to mom and had an abusive stepfather, then back to the foster system, or the psych ward, then back to crazy mom again.
extreme trust issues, BPD, OCD (the bad kind, like having to check the fridge door exactly 5 times), claimed asexual and really hates any kind of sexual "degenerate" stuff has had episodes even discussing the topic, anorexia BMI < 17, multipe involuntary visits to the psych ward, self harming behavior, hypochondria / medical paranoia, general paranoia (e.g. can only shower with the lights out bc she thinks there are cameras in her bathroom) some auditory and visual halluzinations, panic attacks and going catatonic when stressed, NEET, doesn't leave the house unless nesseccary, depression, lives in a government subsidized group home, has a legal guardian despite being 22yo, constant nightmares and sleep issues.
Do you have any tips what else I could do to help her other than just being there for her literally 24/7, talk many hours a day every day, 1000+ whatsapp audios per day, even if she texts me at 4am that she can't sleep I'll answer within minutes.
I encouraged her to buy a (cheap) piano and start practicing
I got her into playing vidya with me
I got her to shower and brush teeth regularly
I got her to use dream journaling and other techniques to have her sleep through most nights without waking up and even have some normal dreams
I got her to start eating more healthy and at least not loosing any more weight
I got her to walk to new stores and places in town she's never been to, buy plants, lego models, plushies etc.
All those I consider pretty basic.
Is there any more advanced stuff someone in your situation would want?
Been doing that for the past 1.5 years every single day without pause.
I'm in love with a girl who exibits simmilar behavior.
SA'd as a child, tho no rape AFAIK, dad died of a heart attack infront of her eyes when she was 7, mother had psychosis, tried to end herself sending my crush to the foster system, went back to mom and had an abusive stepfather, then back to the foster system, or the psych ward, then back to crazy mom again.
extreme trust issues, BPD, OCD (the bad kind, like having to check the fridge door exactly 5 times), claimed asexual and really hates any kind of sexual "degenerate" stuff has had episodes even discussing the topic, anorexia BMI < 17, multipe involuntary visits to the psych ward, self harming behavior, hypochondria / medical paranoia, general paranoia (e.g. can only shower with the lights out bc she thinks there are cameras in her bathroom) some auditory and visual halluzinations, panic attacks and going catatonic when stressed, NEET, doesn't leave the house unless nesseccary, depression, lives in a government subsidized group home, has a legal guardian despite being 22yo, constant nightmares and sleep issues.
Do you have any tips what else I could do to help her other than just being there for her literally 24/7, talk many hours a day every day, 1000+ whatsapp audios per day, even if she texts me at 4am that she can't sleep I'll answer within minutes.
I encouraged her to buy a (cheap) piano and start practicing
I got her into playing vidya with me
I got her to shower and brush teeth regularly
I got her to use dream journaling and other techniques to have her sleep through most nights without waking up and even have some normal dreams
I got her to start eating more healthy and at least not loosing any more weight
I got her to walk to new stores and places in town she's never been to, buy plants, lego models, plushies etc.
All those I consider pretty basic.
Is there any more advanced stuff someone in your situation would want?
Been doing that for the past 1.5 years every single day without pause.