Anonymous
10/30/2025, 1:20:53 AM
No.82955832
>>82949590
I'm a man and I got diagnosed with bpd couple years ago.
I think it's just a trend diagnosis especially at the clinic I was.
I have bad ocd not sure about bpd. I'm usually very calm and controlled, I just get angry and volatile sometimes which I almost never show and I have difficulties with relationships because I get intense internal conflicts about people if I get too close to them. Like love/hatred avoidance etc.
And if I get too close to someone I get these bad urges which I have to control.
That's the reason I've been avoiding relationships for the last 6 years or more.
Also I feel like in alot of relationships that I'm not really valued and that I'm a just a disposable cuck, which might have more to do with how things actually are than with the alleged bpd.
People just come cry to me if they feel bad, for nothing else, which makes sense.
But people should be really careful about throwing diagnosis like these around because it can easily pathologize a marginalized group which behaviors arises from their social standpoint rather than a sickness from the brain.
It becomes a medical rather than a social problem then.
I dated a girl that had "bpd" in the past and she was 100 times more bpd than me but it's hard to put a name on something as complex as human behavior.
If you have bpd you have to learn to control yourself. It's hard but possible to some degree I think.
But if you are a girl, there are no consequences for your actions so there won't even be an strong enough incentive to change your behavior.
I'm a man and I got diagnosed with bpd couple years ago.
I think it's just a trend diagnosis especially at the clinic I was.
I have bad ocd not sure about bpd. I'm usually very calm and controlled, I just get angry and volatile sometimes which I almost never show and I have difficulties with relationships because I get intense internal conflicts about people if I get too close to them. Like love/hatred avoidance etc.
And if I get too close to someone I get these bad urges which I have to control.
That's the reason I've been avoiding relationships for the last 6 years or more.
Also I feel like in alot of relationships that I'm not really valued and that I'm a just a disposable cuck, which might have more to do with how things actually are than with the alleged bpd.
People just come cry to me if they feel bad, for nothing else, which makes sense.
But people should be really careful about throwing diagnosis like these around because it can easily pathologize a marginalized group which behaviors arises from their social standpoint rather than a sickness from the brain.
It becomes a medical rather than a social problem then.
I dated a girl that had "bpd" in the past and she was 100 times more bpd than me but it's hard to put a name on something as complex as human behavior.
If you have bpd you have to learn to control yourself. It's hard but possible to some degree I think.
But if you are a girl, there are no consequences for your actions so there won't even be an strong enough incentive to change your behavior.