>>82956447
the former. i know anons talk about top and bottom being a false dichotomy - and there are of course plenty of nuanced people - but all the dudes i've gotten to know have been hard top or bottom. not really relevant, but i find it neat how so many hardline one way or the other. maybe it's just easy to fall into one role if your partner is hardline on the other (and feel comfortable with that dynamic)