If the listener/reader were willing to entertain feminist teachings, I think most people would agree with them. The way modern women behave, and the way modern "feminists" utilize feminism, is not what feminism actually is. Feminism is about equity for all gender identities, reconstructing society's pecking order, and creating a level playing field for the entire proletarian force.

The majority of women today that are "feminists" have not done any legwork to learn about feminism at all. What is tossed around as feminism is not feminism. The word is now abused to justify poor behavior, that ironically typically reinforces the patriarchy they claim to hate. Feminism does not glorify hedonism, promiscuity, or devaluing of the body for pleasure. When feminism speaks on the female body, it only intends to give women autonomy and control over her own choices. It does not glorify reckless sexual behavior, despite many women today abusing feminism to justify their unsafe choices.

In reality what feminism teaches is to treat every human being as a sovereign body worthy of respect and fair treatment. It's titled feminism as women were effectively indentured servants at the time of its inception. The intent was to create a movement that gave women the opportunity to live life the way they desired, be it independently or as a dependent wife. The intent was deliver choice to the people.

Examine your own life;
Do you find it strange that you were born into this world without your consent? Do you think it's a bit off that you have no choice but to work for someone else and make them money or die? Do you feel like you truly have a choice over what your one shot at existence is like? If these questions create pause, then you should do a little bit of feminist reading.