>you should never trust women
Tragic, but true
In the ideal world, you'd just ask. Regardless of the answer, have a good date and then if the answer wasn't to your liking then you don't meet anymore after it, unless you want to be friends

Instead you've to resort to dirty methods like making her feel comfortable or drunk beforehand. Women create their own bedding. If they were honest, men wouldn't need to be dishonest