>without fear of judgement
They're judging you. Silently. Not in ways that they themselves would consider malicious, but judging nonetheless. This will come into play if you ever tru to be serious with any of them, or anyone who knows what you do with them. You don't get to be the town bike or have male harems without judgement, because people can't psych themselves out of judging you. People who don't WANT to judge you and whose judgement would conflict with their own sexual philosophies are nonetheless privately and subconsciously judging you. Anyone who observes you judges you. Maybe not even on the things you think they'd judge you on.