>>83074972

>But god damn is it really that bad??

Yes.

>except for anything intimate

Doesn't exactly leave a lot on the table. We're incels, involuntarily celibate, related to sex, sexless, romanticless, hoeless, bitchless, loveless men.

>should i maybe give more compliments to dudes?

You will probably just lead them on unintentionally. Unless you're going to fuck them, don't.