Had a good thing going for a while but ultimately didn’t pan out, so posting here again.

31/M

Looking for a specific kind of woman who is already into or curious about findom. I’ve indulged off and on for years, spent thousands, but I don’t enjoy it with professional sex-workers/OF models so prefer searching for partners places like this. Finding something genuine in this niche fetish has become pretty difficult. I am particularly drawn to toxic/abusive types, who view findom as a natural extension of being better than me. Girls who enjoy genuine manipulation, mindfuckery, gaslighting, emotional and psychological edgeplay, that kind of thing. This is a great opportunity for a very specific type of person who I hope is maybe reading this, I am looking for something long term and consistent.

I’m an engineer, not bad looking, enjoy being submissive to women but I’m genuinely not a total brain rot coomer. This toxic indulgence is my primary vice and otherwise my life is quite good/normal. Happy to start casual but ultimately looking for a lasting dynamic.

If you feel like this could be something you’re interested in, but are hesitant due to lack of experience, please add me so we can discuss. Also very willing to just chat about the kink with anyone curious.

Discord is berylliumhat