>>714153739
The reason people find it hard is because it's a mechanics focused game first, and a hardcore action game second.
Your build and your equipment is the main difference between the game being Freddi Fish or Megaman. Using your BRAIN to THINK makes it extremely manageable even if you're not an action god. If you're a lizard brained high speed retard though, then yes, it's going to be considerably more difficult than your typical souls slop.