>be in voice, grinding OC with the bros
>one makes a comment saying "yo what is she doing?" to someone in the CE
>I hear "she" and instinctively reply "what? I didn't even do anything?"
>he says "bro? I said she..."
>I go silent unsure how to respond

Bros, give it to me straight. Am I cooked? This is the third or fourth time I've done this...